Per 5 Life skills

                                                                 March 30, 2004

                        Parenting Essay

                        #1 out of #5

    When I have some childrens which I won¡¯t , unless is ****** **. The format that is going to be used in my letter to my daughter and son  Acacia,Tanya and Jo my age, will be the type of letter they could rely on and totally feel me. When writing the letter I will use some words to express my feelings as I were them.

    I would start out by saying,; Dear Acacia, hello how¡¯s you doing, this your mother. Always keep in mind that I have gone through the exact same situation that any normal teenager would. Don¡¯t be stressing, if there is any problems that just piss you off let it all out. And do not feel embarrassed in any way for you to express your feelings. Let your mother know everything.

    Do not think any of your situation is stupid or embarrassing to be shared to your mother , I would like to know so I can be able to go on and advice you. Always have in mind that you mother Janet Oh went through the same thing whichever is going on in your life.

    Acacia, your daddy and I love you very muchos lots no matter how you might think that we don¡¯t understand SH**. Always show us your love by hugs and the phrase ¡° I love you.¡±

    Above all keep in mind that your loving mother will always be by you any time you need something. Mother understands you are yourself which definitely means I can¡¯t live your life for you , but at least let your mother guide you to the right direction and advices that will come in handy at all times , well mostly. 

                                 - Love always your mother Janet Oh-

JANET OH'z TASTE IN A GUY~!!

hair color- black                                                                                                 
height- 5'5-5'7                                                             
six pack- OKAY, 
hair- ALBERT YU'z IS THE TYPE~!!!!:)
glasses- if my boy needs glasses let him wear it

piercings- on the ears only ( I AGREE WITH DAT)
bug eyes- is bug eye suppose mean SOME LIKE DIs -_-

well..albert yu's eyes r kind of somewhat like this .. AND I LOVE EM~!!!                                                                                  
eye brows- umm...as long its not a unibrow or waxed or plucked ( YEA UNNI I AGREE ON DAT 1 TOO)
big butt or little- a normal one/YEAH MEE TOOz
chest hair- um...nopee  ( HAIL NOOOO)
buff or skinny- skinny but buffish/ YEA EXACTLY LIKE THE PRECIOUS I KNOW~!!
straight teeth, gap, or braces- dont care    / THE PRECIOUS I KNOW GOT EM AND IT BEST MATCHES HIM~!!!! :)                                    
funny or serious- well funny buh knos how to be serious / EXACTLY MANNNNN LIKE "HIM"~!!!!                                                       
party or stay at home- HOME MANNN HOME~!!! 
should he cook or bake- hahhaha dont care if he can`t do both( XACTLY~)
should he have alot of friends that are girls-i dunt mind..( YEAH ME TOO)   
should he have a bestfriend-if he wants then fineee( YEAH)
outgoing or shy- outgoing fun type :] ( MEE TOO)
sarcastic or sincere- both  (YEAH MEE TOO)                                               
should he love his mother- yeshh indeed he should- (MMM HMM YES INDEED~!!!)
should he watch chick flicks- if i ask him too :D( DON'T EXACTLY KNOW WHAT TDIS MEANS)
would he smoke-dun matter(  NO NOT WITH ME, I'll MAKE HI STOPP)

would he drink- dunt matter as long as he could take care of himself  ( YEAH~!! ME TOO)               
would he play with your hair- hahha dunt mind .. i like wen ppl play wid my hair ( OH YES!!! GO AHEAD)
one or more girls at the same time- ehh...i guess one( GO AHEAD HAVE 21 MORE~ :)
would he pay for dates- nooo ill fell bad ( YES~!!!, and SO WILL I, but we could even come up widdah date dat don't include payin called" DAtE AT YOUR HOUSE" like dat 1 even BETTER!!!)
does he kiss on the first date- suure on the cheek  ( WE'LL GO FURTHER!!! (JP JP)  YEA JUSS ON THE "FACE" CHEEKIES~!!                              
where would you go for dinner- doesnt matter as long as we have fun  ( YEA AGREE ON DAT TOO)
would he bring you flowers- suree how sweet XD("HE DON"t GOT TO BRING NO FLOWERS FOR ME too ABDORE HIM( precious)"~!!! :)
would he lay under the stars with you- hahhah i guesss( HE'D BETTER!!! HA HA I'LL MAKE HIM~~~ )
would he write songs about you- cutee... if he could   ( I WOULD definately dedicate a song for him boout him~!!)                           
would he call you hunni, sweety, or baby- if he wants to den sure y not :] ( I'D HAVE "HIM" CALL ME OH_J-LOVELY)
would he hang with you and your friends- yeahh( A LILttLE SHOWING OFF COULD BE DONE~!!:)                 
would you hang out with him and his friends- yeahhh (  YEA WITH A GOOD ATTITUDE)
would he walk you to the door at the end- hahha that'll be nice     ( I "LL PREFER TO MY ROOOM, DON'T MATTER)          
holding hands- of course ( HOLDING ARMS IS BETTER)
soccer-dun matter ( YEA , ihate sports mahself)                                                                           
baseball-  nah.. don have to                                                                           
basketball- yeshhh i find it a turn on =]/ NOT REALLY BUT MINE DOES~~!!!*^^*
water polo- hmm..  ( YEA MAGIKAL MANN  )                                                                        
skateboard- umm not really  ( YEA DON HAVE TOO)                                                                     
snowboard-i guess...  (NO MY "PRECIOUS" COULD GET HURT~!!)                                                                                                 
sing-dunt ( IZZAL GOOD NO MATTER HOW "HE" DO HIS THING~!!)                                                                           
play guitar- dun matter/ YEAH he could juss pull some string and get away widdit~! i'll faint even thought he don't ask me too~!!
play piano- dont have to( YEA)
play drums- NO DON't mind                                                                       
clean his room-wen he needs to or wants to   ( YEAH)                                                         
use the word "dude"- dun matter ( YEAH)
use the word "tight"- dun ( YEAH) DON'tmatter                                                            
use the word "hot"- as long as he isn`t talkn about another girl XD ( HE CAN SAY HOtt TO N E BODY~!!)
would he watch the sunlight with you- umm suree (YEA, AND I"LL BE SAYING "YU GOLDEN SMILE IS AS BROGHT AS THE SUNLIGHT WE WATCHING DIS VERY MOMENT~!!!!!) AHHHH*
what kind of car does he drive- as longs as its a car (YEAH, MAYBY A CADILLAC OR AUDII!!!! DON't MATTR)
how old- my age

have you found him yet - HAIL YEA HE MY HUSBANd through my PRAYERS,AMEN TO DAT~!!!~!!!